The Christmas Tree

More than once over the years a retired elementary teacher friend has told me the story of her team teacher colleague, Ron, and his Christmas tree.  This year she gave me a photo copy of the tree as of December 2023.  To me, the photo is worth more than the usual “thousand words”….

Here is the entire story: “In 1985 my teaching partner Ron was told he had bone cancer, and he would not be alive for Christmas. So. he bought an artificial tree. He and the tree are still up.

Any extra words are superfluous.  The diagnosis was dire, about 38 years ago.  Life goes on.

I’m told this photo is of the exact same tree as 38 years ago.  The tree has seen better days, but every day it is there, a reminder of a time without hope for its owner.

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Christmas trees or variations on them are a part of the tradition of this season for many of us, as the old years ends, and a new year beckons.

Ron’s tree prompts a suggestion:

Rather than focusing on the hopeless – easy to do in this troubled time – spend a few moments thinking of one happening in the past year which was memorable in a positive way.  Something you’re grateful happened in your own life:  ONE thing in 2023.  Some other year?  More than one?  Can’t think of anything?  Fine.  Just give it a thought.

(No need to share.)

All best wishes for a good New Year in 2024.

Thank you, Kathy.

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Midweek daughter Heather and I went to the new movie, Wonka.  It was Heather’s choice.  I found it a most positive film – one of those children’s film made for adults.  There are lots of reviews.  Check it out.  Wonka Movie Reviews.

Motivation for this post comes from a long ago poem I first read in “The Best Loved Poems of the American People”: Loom of Time, selected by Hazel Felleman.  I saw the poem when I purchased the 1936 book i n 1961.   I still have it.  I include with the poem the introduction to the original.  The book is still available, here.

COMMENTS:

from SAK:  Touching that Christmas tree story & although I am pretty damn pessimistic looking at what’s happening here & there I liked your: “ spend a few moments thinking of one happening in the past year which was memorable in a positive way.  Something you’re grateful happened in your own life:  ONE thing in 2023.”

I also liked Peter’s update [comment below] of Spike Milligan. Some give up on drink, some on cursing . . . Spike completely gave up on the past year.

Wishing you & yours a healthy & glorious 2024 – it’s gonna be exciting anyhow!

from Arthur: Excellent post! Happy new year!

from Claude:  Thanks, Dick. I’m hoping you have a great 2024, a year that promises to be fascinating!  Thanks for all you do.

from Chuck: responding to an editorial in The Washington Post on Dec. 22 2023:

Regarding the Dec. 22 editorial, “How the battle for democracy will be fought — and won”:

The Editorial Board must look beyond the box in defeating authoritarian advantages in framing democracy as dysfunctional. Democracies are dysfunctional. They can’t react instantly with a workable solution. And if they do, it’s only momentary in stopping the problem. Independent nations with independent agencies cannot quickly stop globally interdependent challenges. Authoritarians can act quickly and forcefully. Then they can quickly adjust if they fear a citizen revolt, making them appear strong and wise.

Democracies’ lag times at best yield only reactionary solutions. Combined with citizens’ unrealistic expectations for best results, problems are unlikely to be solved. Quick and effective responses to pandemics, immigration flows, violent extremists, destructive weather patterns or economic pain caused by interdependent global influences are not going to come from either form of government. Neither can deliver what’s actually needed: addressing root causes. This would require international cooperation and coordination on a level unseen since the global eradication of smallpox or hosting the Olympics.

Democracies moving in this sensible direction would require a majority of wise and patient voters insisting on it. Freedom certainly matters to them! But protecting a nation’s freedoms requires wisdom, responsibility, accountability and a democratic majority of virtuous voters. An authoritarian leader needs only patience and to placate citizens. Both systems of government can expect a rougher future.

Chuck WooleryRockville

The writer is a former chair of the United Nations Association Council of Organizations.

 

Birthday

UPDATE  on Gaza Jan. 6, 2023:  David Cooley, a local member of Veterans for Peace in the Twin Cities wrote a commentary on Gaza on the Winter 2023 VFP Newsletter.  It speaks for itself: Vet for Peace comments on Gaza Winter 2023.

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All Blessings on this most most contradictory of days: Christmas.  Virtually everyone knows some version of the story of the birth of Jesus and for 1,700 years infinite observations, from sermons to commentaries have endeavored to bring meaning to the birth of the child in Bethlehem.

Apparently, the annual events in Bethlehem have been cancelled this Christmas.  This day we’ll participate by livestream at Basilica of St. Mary Minneapolis 9:30 a.m. CST.

This year, I’ve decided to share a few words about my singular visit to Bethlehem, Thursday Jan 12, 1996.  The photo below is from the nativity scene purchased at a Palestinian shop in Jerusalem on Jan. 14.  That story is in my post for December 10, 2023.  The second picture, at the Manger,  is from Grandma Bernard’s 1911 Bible.  I was there, in person in January, 1996 (more below). Here is a UNESCO article about the holy site.  This article includes much background information and 18 photographs.  The Bible text we read at the site when I was among the visitors was Luke 2:1-20.

Nativity 1996. Some of the 18 Olive Wood figurines, purchased in Jerusalem January, 1996.

Briefly, an afternoon in Bethlehem, Thursday Jan. 11, 1996:  Bethlehem is only six miles from Jerusalem.  I was there 6 years before construction of the Separation Barrier began in 2002.  The wiki article about Bethlehem is linked above.

Like so many other Biblical sites in the Holy Land, Church of the Nativity has a divided jurisdiction.  In its case, it is jointly administered by Greek Orthodox churches, the Custody of the Holy Land, and the Armenian church.

The Christian group I traveled with appeared to have a substantial number of  Orthodox from places like Pennsylvania.  As I witnessed personally, many of them were church choir members with wonderful singing voices.

We arrived at the Church of the Nativity coincident with an Orthodox funeral beginning in the upper church.  We watched from the side.  This was like a funeral you’d attend anywhere, with only the liturgical differences.  The deceased seemed to be an elder in a family.

The church itself is very ancient, and at the time of our visit there was some reconstruction/repair work in process.

The Manger site itself is below ground level, and we could approach the site.  (More on all of this can be seen in the UNESCO photos and text linked above).  This was a place of reverence, and closely supervised.  We were there only a short time.

In the town square, at the edge of which is the Church, was a very large banner supporting Yasser Arafat in an upcoming election.  It was the sole political indicator that I can recall seeing.

“The little town of Bethlehem” is larger than 2,000 years ago, but still a tiny place in comparison to nearby Jerusalem (perhaps 30,000 against about 900,000).

These days I wonder if there are many groups like the one I was part of who can come to Bethlehem.

There is more that I could offer, but leave this suffice for today.  All blessings.

POSTNOTE: In a couple of weeks, at this space, I’ll share some personal comments about how I see this time in history.  Check back.

COMMENTS:

from Brian: From a Colombian friend in Berlin–Merry Christmas!

from Michelle:

“Christ in the Rubble” 2023 image by artist/iconographer Kelly Latimore @KLICONS is inspired by those in nearby Bethlehem.
“Churches in the Holy Land have canceled big Christmas celebrations in favor of quieter, somber worship services. The move is meant to draw attention to the violence in Gaza and the West Bank.” LISTEN TO NPR STORY

from Judy: My singular visit to Bethlehem and the gift shop was in January 1988 right after the first Intifada began.  I feel fortunate I was able to go because it is much harder today for tour groups to have this experience.  I of course am so saddened to see how Netanyahu is handling this crisis..

from Larry: Thank you Dick.  I don’t know how I feel now, but I have often in the past wanted to visit what is called THE HOLY LAND.  Mary Lerman and family moved back from Jerusalem where they had moved to in retirement.  Mary is a friend, the Mpls Park Horticulturalist, who engineered turning an abandoned magnificent rock garden (built by one of the park system founders) into the Lake Harriet Peace Garden.  I am done at Plymouth church Drop In end of the year, so just organized my last Christmas chapel where Drop in Folks do all the talks, Bible readings, and special music.  I normally have not been on the program, but this one I told Tolstoy’s magnificent story, WHERE LOVE IS, THERE IS GOD ALSO.  These days often reminded of the story of someone asking Gandhi what he thought of Christianity.  “It would be a good idea,” he said


from Fred:  Thanks for this interesting memoir. We’ve made lots of journeys but never to Israel.

Closest we got was Constantinople another place, as you know, we a substantial place in both Christian and Moslem tradition.  Merry Christmas,

from Kathy:

from Carol:

Sunflowers

Today is Winter Solstice 2023.  Molly offers some seasonal poems at the end of this post.  All best wishes for all that is good at this season, and in these times.

A North Dakota retired farmer sent his Christmas letter recently, including this photo: “Sunflowers…in 1980s”

The photo brought memories for me.

The farmland pictured was perhaps four miles from the farm where my mother grew up.  Back in the day, I would try to set aside a week or so each year to go back to the farm and help Vince and Edithe, my uncle and aunt, with whatever, usually in August or September.

In at least one of these years – likely in the 1980s – Uncle Vince had a go with growing sunflowers.  As summer went on, his field looked exactly like this one: beautiful.

Of course, farming (and life, for that matter) is not seamlessly pleasant, and as I remember, growing sunflowers had a downside for Uncle Vince – so sunflowers were a brief diversion for him from the more normal wheat.

As the sunflowers matured the ample heads filled with sunflower seeds.

Sunflowers had their downside for the farmer.  Along with being a yummy place for assorted insect pests, a sunflower patch nearing maturity was a banquet site for blackbirds, and sometimes, hundreds and maybe thousands of them would drop in and enjoy a free meal. A vexed Vince would take out his shotgun and fire a few rounds, which would temporarily spook the blackbirds far across the field, but they’d always come back.  Of course, the other insects didn’t much care.

Vince was a gentle man.  Looking a blackbird in the eye, shotgun in hand, he’d never shoot the bird.

Even had he wanted to, the blackbirds had the advantage and  common sense.   Fields were large, and days were long.  “Come on in!” seemed the invitation, and they accepted, happily.

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Farming is an honorable profession, with its abundant risks and sometimes its rewards.  One of the rewards is vistas such as the photo.  Best to savor the moment, as the photographer did, above.

As we head full tilt into winter, maybe this photo will bring to mind some of your own memories, wherever you live or lived.  Vince and Edithe were they still alive, would be looking forward to the seed catalogs to arrive, a break in winters isolation.

All best wishes for a very good Christmas and New Year.

POSTNOTE: I’m not a farmer, and as I was contemplating this brief post, I wasn’t sure that Vince’s nemesis was blackbirds.  Maybe it was just my imagination.

I searched ‘sunflowers and blackbirds’ and indeed the crop and the bird have more than a casual relationship.  Just search the two words – sunflowers and blackbirds – together, and you’ll find plenty of articles.  Same with sunflowers and insects.

POSTNOTE 2: Ty, in another Christmas letter, offers a quote from Goethe, with a comment: “We are adjusting in our own ways to the virus.  Now it is time for us to make the “new normal” part of our lives.

May your holidays and New Era be filled with happiness, good times and good health.”

POSTNOTE 3, from Molly:

Enclosed are some relevant poems, plus 2 rather wonderful bits of music… from the classical (John Rutter–the dark part) to Gordon Bok–who sings the light. Solstice 2023 Molly.  [The links to the music referred to are here and here.]
Blessings to each of you, as the season of Light returns,

Peace on Earth….

Previous posts this month: 1st, 5th and 7th.

I have been thinking of how I can most constructively approach this distinctly unpeaceful season of peace.  What follows is a small attempt.  Sunday we were at a magnificent Christmas program at a large suburban church, St. Andrews Lutheran in Mahtomedi: “How Great Our Joy!”  There had to be at least 1,000 of us in attendance, for the first of two performances.  My mind wandered to a less pleasant scene in today’s Israel….

Earlier, Friday evening, daughter Lauri and two of the grandkids, Kelly and Lucy, came over to help decorate the Christmas tree – an annual tradition.  Saturday morning I noticed a bedraggled box by the television.

The box is very familiar to me.  It was delivered in early 1996 from Israel. It’s contents are 18 carved olive wood figures of a typical nativity scene.  I had purchased it in Jerusalem at a Palestinian shop which I think catered to Christian visitors to Israel.  A group of us had gone to the shop one evening.  The box, my purchase, was cleared for shipping by the Israel Postal Authority.

The set was expensive, and worth it.  Every year since,  the contents of the box are on display during the Christmas season.  Then it goes back into the same box till next year.

This year the box takes on particular significance to me: there is no peace in Israel; and no indication that sanity will return any time soon.  Hostilities are being ratcheted up, rather than tamped down.

Our trip to Israel in 1996 was about 11 days.  The January 11 itinerary included.Bethlehem, about 6 miles from Jerusalem. Among other visits was Yad Vashem. There was not yet a separation wall.  That was to come beginning in 2002.  The visit to the shop was after the visit to Bethlehem.

I have noted previously that 1996 was not a time of palpable tension in Israel, at least not felt by this visitor.  Yitzhak Rabin had been assassinated by a radical Jew in Jerusalem a couple of months before we arrived, but there seemed general calm.  We were allowed into the Golden Dome on Temple Mount.

Fast forward. I am very discouraged by the events of the past months.  Nonetheless, I hang onto the tenuous thread of hope, though punishing a group for the sins of a few, what seems to be the case now, is not and has never been constructive.  It does not work.

Which brings me back to the box….

The Nativity set, 1996.

I wish us all peace.  That 1996 Nativity set, photo above, in a sense melds Muslim, Christian and Jewish in Israel in a cooperative way.  I think it was Palestinians who carved the pieces, and sold me the product; Israel Postal Authority delivered the product to me, a Christian, in the U.S.

Maybe the box and its contents are something of a metaphor for the not always pretty reality of our own lives.  Maybe, the external box reflects how we feel about the tattered state of our country and world, but may not reflect the reality of who we really are – the people in that church sanctuary on Sunday.

More than ever, that set reminds me that we are all in this together.

Whatever your belief of tradition, don’t give up.  Work for Peace.

COMMENTS:

from Sharon: I especially liked the sentence of the Palestinians carving, sent from israel and arriving to a Minnesota christian. I, too, have an olive wood nativity set. My brother, Dallas, was a tour guide in Israel back in l962 and purchased it for my parents. Through the years, Mary got lost. I  have taken one of the shepherds and placed her behind Baby Jesus in the manger. Great article today. Merry Christmas. We must keep the faith.

from Florence: Thanks, Dick. Without a doubt we’re challenged these days to remember that “Christianity” is just a small part of the faithful in a world that too often overlooks others, including animals (land and water) that are much larger to much smaller than we are, but are equally a part of creation.

Our Christmas season figurines are making their way to the “barn”, occupied solely by a cow now, including the Christ Child in a manger, that won’t arrive until Christmas Day, December 31. Then we can begin to celebrate Christmas through to the arrival of the Three Kings. Before that we’ll be baking cookies and breads, entertaining friends and family, including Eric and Holly to celebrate their birthdays, and helping to deliver meals and participate in the Legion Hall dinner on Christmas Day.
We will also be entertaining friends here at home, at the cabin (if the weather allows!), and at least one dinner out with friends. Meanwhile, I’m trying to finish reading a book for our League book group, for discussion on Wednesday. I’ve started creating our Holiday cards from those we’ve received over the past three years, but am not at all sure when they’ll be delivered. Handwriting short personal greetings in each card will be challenging, without a doubt!
Very best wishes as this Holiday Season progresses through another New Year!

response from Dick: Our nativity group seems less active than yours.  It hasn’t found its home just yet, but will reside there until it returns to the box.  This is not to say we don’t try to act in the spirit of the season.  Also, I’ve always been abundantly aware of the fact that the labels “Christian”, “Jewish”, “Muslim”, etc. are by no means “one size fits all”.  Just look at all the variations within and among denominations, including such variations as atheist and agnostic, etc.  As a kid, I can remember when there was such animosity between Catholic and Protestant (both Christian) that one would have nothing to do with the other, with (they felt) justification.

 

 

 

December 7, 2023

Those who follow this blog know that I have often remembered Uncle Frank Bernard who perished on the USS Arizona at Pearl Harbor, December 7, 1941.  Search his name (the magnifying glass at upper right corner) and you will find many references.  Most recent was Dec. 7, 2022.

My main engagement re Uncle Frank this year has been to participate in a DNA-match process, to possibly match myself with some remnant of Uncle Frank preserved long ago, but not identifiable.  The odds are very long against such a match, but any possibility is worth the effort.

This year is by no means a routine December 7, in places like Gaza and Ukraine.  Today is the first day of Hanukkah, the Jewish Festival of Lights.

Today, I remember and honor everyone who has perished at the wrong end of a bomb or bullet, anywhere, any time.

Yesterday came another one of those ‘forwards’ that I feel is perfect for this season.  It speaks for itself.

 

December 5 post: Liz and Rachel.

POSTNOTE:   I published the blog this morning, and have been thinking all day about the “bomb or bullet” reference.

“War” today far exceeds its traditional definition.  Sure, the weapons are the way they were, albeit much more sophisticated.  But they have been augmented by even more dangerous weapons: lies, disinformation, misinformation, and on and on.

How do we change the conversation, one person at a time, where we live.  The “To-Do” list above is a good start.  Words, too, but the adage “actions speak louder than words” speak too.

 

Liz and Rachel

Liz Cheney’s book, “Oath and Honor“, is out today, and my wife wanted a copy so it’s in the house.  We watched the interview with Rachel Maddow last night.  Liz self-identifies as a “conservative”, Rachel as a “liberal”, both on the left and right flanks of the population, but neither at the ideological extremes.

Rather than review the book, or the positions, which by now are well known to anyone wishing to learn what the “sides” feel, I’d like to briefly comment on what I was seeing and feeling at the time of the interview last night.

I start from what I think is a generally acknowledged public perspective.  Both are women, well known and respected. and thus subject to public attention and also to attack from opponents who consider them to be powerful

Liz Cheney, born 1966, is a lawyer, was a three-term Republican Congresswoman in leadership in the House of Representative, daughter of Dick Cheney, former vice-president of the United States.

Rachel Maddow, born 1973, is a graduate of Stanford, and has a PhD from Oxford, and over 20 year career in broadcasting.

The wiki links give a good description of both accomplished women.  They would self-describe as ideological opponents, at the same time, last night, they met as equals, and I was impressed.

What also strikes me is that both are powerful women actors in what were, in the older days, places where men dominated, and in many ways still dominate, though considerably more nervously.

I have noted for years the steady rise in conventional power of women, persons of color, and more recently youth.

When I graduated from college in 1961, I had not long before turned 21, the then-legal age to vote.  So I could not vote.  Then, 18 was selective service “Draft” age; 16 was the age for getting a drivers license, and possibly other threshold ages for various things.

Race of course, has been at minimum a source of quiet tension.

In organizations where both men and women were engaged, men were the designated leaders – it was not fought about, it was understood – an assumption.  On a number of occasions, on a personal level, I’ve had occasion to make lists of leaders, and the farther back one goes, the less likely one finds women as, for example, Presidents of even small organizations.

It’s hardly a mystery why women’s suffrage didn’t happen until almost 60 years after the Emancipation Proclamation.

Today, the ceilings remain, and there is tension as youth, people of color and women push at the boundaries.  It is probably natural that people of my gender, race and age tend to push back.

But the change is happening and I for one am happy that it is.

POSTNOTE:  Thinking more about the above, we tend to be imprisoned by implanted attitudes that we learn as we grow up.  In the simplest view, there are the generalizations which cause us problems: women view the world differently than men and would do a better job of governing; young people don’t know as much as elders, and without supervision will screw things up; people of color, poor people, immigrants who look different, don’t speak our language, etc., are not as good as we are.   On and on.

In our culture, people who look like me are the ones who got their start “on third base”: being a white male has had its advantages.  As barriers continue to fall, restrictions of opportunities for others decrease, in all of the ways we notice.  That is very threatening to people who look like me.  In general, I think one the very long term, we will find that people are people regardless of all of the artificial barriers.

One of the insights from the Liz and Rachel conversation is a brilliant statement of the obvious.  Imprisoned within their bubbles, liberal and conservative, it was difficult, perhaps, to understand that they really are quite decent people, and maybe even can like each other as a person.  This is one thing we seem to have lost in our polarized political conversation.  Any cracks in the wall of division are welcome, in my opinion.

 

 

Arrival

Please see postnote at the end of this post.

It has been another event-filled time in my life.  I was again orphaned on the internet, this time from Nov 22 – Nov. 28.  probably thanks to some denizen of the dark web, the real reason or identity or location of the perpetrator never to be known.  So I start over again. (“Arrival”, this posts title, seems a synonym for Advent, soon to begin, and appropriate as a header for this post.)

Yesterday, Molly sent her usual collection of poetry for the season.  I’m privileged to be part of her list.  There are a couple of pages: 2023 T-day

Kathy sent along an inspirational phrase passed along by a friend.  It is very appropriate for this or any season:

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Molly had called me during Rosalynn Carter’s celebration of life.

Nov 29, 2023

I watched the entirety of Rosalynn Carter’s farewell in Atlanta.  Very moving.  Jimmy, her partner for 77 years, was in attendance and then in Plains, Georgia, their home.  They were and are heroes of mine: small town folks who cared for others for a lifetime.

President Carter, near right side front row, Nov. 29, 2023

The Carter’s represented the United States honorably and effectively.

My son and I visited Plains GA in June, 1977, a few months after the Carter Presidency began.  Plains was and remains  small town, much like those I was familiar with from North Dakota days.  We were enroute to Florida, and I at least wanted to see Plains, which is about 50 miles off the freeway.  There was not much to see in the small town (pop. about 500).  Carter’s were not there, of course; you couldn’t get close to the house; we didn’t see the school both attended; we did see the peanut warehouse.  This was before brother Billy’s escapade with Billy Beer.

Plains Ga June 1977

Three years later, in January, 1980, I had a singular opportunity to sit at the Carter Cabinet table in the West Wing for a briefing.  Neither Jimmy Carter nor vice-president Walter Mondale were there that day, but it was still a unique experience.  The Carter presidency was friendly to public education.  I’ll add a photo from that day at the end of this post.

The post-presidency years were amazingly productive ones for the Carters, who were in their early 50s when their years in the White House ended. Personally, I think their positive reputation will live on, in some ways like Eleanor and Franklin Roosevelt.  Sure, Jimmy Carter had only a single term, but his accomplishments were many and were positive; and Rosalyn was by no means a casual bystander.  And they did not rest in the over more than 40 years  following the presidential years.  Their contributions to the betterment of humanity worldwide are well documented.  They showed up.  I last saw President Carter in person in Minneapolis, as he spoke at the 2015 Augsburg Nobel Peace Prize Forum.  He was about 90 at the time, and very impressive.

March, 2015, Minneapolis, Augsburg Nobel Peace Prize Forum.  photo Dick Bernard

The Carter Center well represents the Carter’s legacy to this country.  Johnathan Alter’s book, His Very Best, about Carter’s life and work, seems very worthwhile.  Carter himself was a very prolific author.  I have a dozen of his books here.

Our country and our world can be grateful for their service.

Dick Bernard, January, 1980 White House, Washington DC

POSTNOTE: 6 p.m. on November 22 was the last e-mail I received until Nov. 29.  If you sent an e-mail to me in that period, I’ll never see it.  There were increasing suspicious intrusions and ultimately Apple shut down, and then cancelled, my e-mail address.  Six days later I set up a new account, with a new e-address.

I’ll continue the blog, of course, probably essentially the same general frequency as before, but I probably won’t send reminders.  Best strategy, if you wish, is to check the archive (at right on this page) for the current month.  For example: for November 2023, click  HERE.  Scroll down, most recent is first on list.

POSTNOTE 2: Dec. 2: Subsequent to the drafting of this post came the announcements of the deaths of Henry Kissinger and Sandra Day O’Connor. both of the same generation as the Carters; both very prominent in their own niches.  I will stay with the Carters exclusively for this post.