#609 – Dick Bernard: French HORNswoggled

This is about a wonderful French Horn concert I attended on August 6 in St. Paul.
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Bob Olsen and conductor Derik Rehurek share some thoughts before the program began


To my knowledge, “hornswoggle” (syn: bamboozled, etc) has absolutely nothing to do with French horns , but I just couldn’t get the word out of my mind as I remembered a delightful evening. I’ve heard the French Horn can be a beast to play, and it has its share of jokes. Here are some.
Maybe one has to have a sense of humor to survive playing the French Horn. At one point in a piece last Monday, I watched cousin Mary Kay, an avid French Horn player, strain to get enough wind to tootle the phrase. She looked almost in pain. Later she told me (if I recall correctly) that the lower register can be a bear if you don’t have a lot of wind.
There were 17 horn-sters at the Horns of Summer concert at the Dove Hill house (next door to the James J. Hill mansion on Summit Avenue, St. Paul). Perhaps there were about as many of us in the audience.
This was a free private concert specifically for people who love to play French horn. MC Bob Olsen, one of the hornsters himself, said there were something over 90 French Horn players on his e-mail list. They play for assorted community orchestras, and occasionally have an opportunity, like this particular evening, to do a program of exclusively French horn Music, as much for their own enjoyment as anything.
They played with gusto!
They tootled away, these hornsters, often playing pretty powerfully in a space specifically designed for concerts and such when Louis and Maud Hill expanded their mansion about 1912. The current owners call their home Dove Hill. Theirs is an elegant space.
Here is the program for the evening: Horns of Summer 2012001
Not sure what French Horns sound like? YouTube has lots of examples.

Tootling away. Cousin Mary is second from right in back row.


Between pieces, the players swapped chairs, and it was sometimes a bit difficult to hear the conductor introduce the next piece. It was not a distraction, however. This was what I would call joyful noise. These were friends, banded together by their love of music and the French Horn, and they only saw each other on occasion. No time to miss an opportunity to catch up!
Short program over, we departed.
I noted two paintings on the wall which were, it turned out, murals about the settlement of this area. The photos are at the end.
Back on Summit, heading to my car and home, for some reason, there was a bit of extra spring in my step!
Many thanks to the Nicholsons for hosting the evening.

Mural, mural on the wall...


Franco-Fete in Villes Jumelles (the Twin Cities of Minneapolis-St. Paul) September 28-30, 2012

UPDATE Sep 12, 2012: Here’s an interesting hour with samples of Le Vent du Nord music and discussion of Franco-Fete on Bonjour Minnesota radio program Sep 11, 2012.
CONTACT INFORMATION: Check in occasionally. Scroll to end of this post.
Francophone, Francophile, French-Canadian ancestry…or know someone who is, or is interested? Consider passing this post along, about a very special event in Minneapolis September 28-30, 2012. That’s only two weeks away. Home website is here.

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Statue of Pioneers corner of Marshall and Main Street NE, Minneapolis, less than a mile from the conference venue.


reverse side of Pioneer Statue


In 1980, the United States Census asked, for the last time, a question about the ethnic background of Americans.
That year, 7.9% of Minnesotans- 321,087 persons, one of every 12 citizens – declared themselves to be a least partially of French (France and/or French-Canadian) ancestry. Neighboring Wisconsin counted 7.3% Wiconsinites of such ancestry and many other states had very significant numbers of persons in this category. Fr-Can in U.S. 1980001
It is this base, and any of those with an interest in the French language and cultural influence, who will want to set aside the end of September, 2012, for the first-ever Franco-Fete in Minneapolis.
All details, including registration information, are on the web here.
IMPORTANT TO NOTE: The agenda continues to evolve. Even if you’ve checked before, check back again to get a more complete picture of the entire conference. The music and meal programs especially should be reserved now as we anticipate very significant interest both Friday and Saturday evening.
Franco-Fete will include all the elements of a fine program: family, food, fun…along with academics, history, music…
This will be the first such Fete in Minneapolis-St. Paul, but is not a first ever venture.
Leader Dr. Virgil Benoit, French-Canadian (Franco-American), professor of French at the University of North Dakota and a lifelong part of the Red Lake Falls MN community, has been putting together similar festivals for over 35 years in various places in Minnesota and North Dakota. Dr. Benoit is a professor of diverse talents and great skill, as well as having great passion for the culture and language of his birth.
This years conference will be the largest and most ambitious thus far. Most likely it will be continued in subsequent years.

Virgil Benoit ca 2008 compliments of Anne Dunn


There are two major venues for this years Conference:
Our Lady of Lourdes Church, since 1877 the spiritual home of Minneapolis French-Canadians, will be the venue for Friday night Sep 28. The below photo, taken ca 1968, shows Lourdes as it was before the development of Riverplace around it in the early 1980s.)
DeLaSalle High School, a few short blocks from Lourdes on Nicollet Island in the Mississippi River, and within a short walk of downtown Minneapolis, will be the venue for all of Saturday Sep 29 programs.
On Sunday, September 30, at noon, the French-speaking congregation at St. Boniface Catholic Church in nearby northeast Minneapolis, will host those who wish to experience the Catholic Mass in French. This community, largely immigrants from African countries with French colonial overlays, is a vibrant French-speaking community in the midst of the Twin Cities. While not a formal part of the conference, we urge participants to take part in this ending celebration.

Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church, Minneapolis, 1968


Our Lady of Lourdes, August 7, 2012


DeLaSalle High School, Nicollet Island, Minneapolis MN


Fr. Jules Omalanga, pastor St. Boniface Catholic Church, Minneapolis, after Mass March 25, 2012


After a sit-down supper at Our Lady of Lourdes on Friday Sep 28, and tour of the church, noted musician Dan Chouinard and friends will give a concert in the sanctuary of the Church.
On Saturday evening Sep 29 the noted Quebec band Le Vent du Nord will do music workshops and a music program at DeLaSalle. They are internationally noted, and one of Canada’s most popular ensembles. (The web page can also be accessed in French.) UPDATE: More on the Le Vent du Nord event here.. Tickets can also be purchased on-line here. The evening program begins at 5:30 p.m.
The St. Boniface Francophone Choir of Minneapolis, Dan Chouinard and others will also be part of this evening extravaganza.

And Sunday Sep 30 at noon, the community at St. Boniface will host all for Catholic Mass in French.
Again, Franco-Fete is only two weeks away!
Now is the time to enroll.

NOTE: You can find many related commentaries using search word Quebec or French-Canadian. Or enter any of the following numbers in the search box and click enter: (Each has a basis in French-Canadian or Quebec) #15 Grandpa; 28 Weller; 43 Fathers Day; 280; 306; 313; 388; 449; 450; 459; 481; 486; 510; 550; 573; 582; UPDATE Sep 5: 585; 610; Aug. 17, 2012; Sep. 1, 2012;
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Clotilde Blondeau and Octave Collette about July 12, 1869


Clotilde Blondeau and Octave Collette married at St. Anthony of Padua in then-St. Anthony, now-Minneapolis MN July 12, 1869. In 1871 the City Directory showed them, and the rest of Collette family, living at what is now the corner of SE 2nd Street and SE 6th Avenue at what is now a block or two from Father Hennepin Park and Minneapolis’ Stone Arch Bridge, and perhaps three blocks from I-35E bridge. More here.
Additional information for those with a continuing interest in matters French-Canadian are invited to visit here. This space will be updated and may well become a continuing presence for those with an interest.

#599 – Dick Bernard: Thoughts in the immediate wake of Aurora CO

UPDATE: Followup posts here and here.
Out and about this afternoon I noticed that Dark Knight Rises is playing at our local Woodbury Theatre, and the parking lot was packed. What these two facts might mean, I don’t know. The front page of the Variety section of this mornings Minneapolis Star Tribune gave the film Four Stars (out of four). This places the STrib in an awkward position this afternoon.
One has no doubt what the lead story on tonights news – all channels – will be. It is yet another tragedy, certainly not the first, and as certainly not the last in this comfortable-with-violence country of ours.
Waking to the breaking news this morning caused me to think back to an afternoon on April 20, 1999.
I was returning to St. Paul from a day-long meeting in Brooklyn Park, and along I-94 somewhere heard the announcement about school shootings in Littleton CO.
This elevated my concerns. My son and family had lived in Littleton for more than ten years, and Lindsay, my granddaughter, was 12 and in a Littleton school.
Those were the days before cell phones, and I couldn’t make contact till I got back to my office. There was an e-mail. All was okay with our family.
I learned the school was Columbine, which didn’t relate to me since no one had mentioned it before. I looked it up on the then fledgling version of mapquest, and found its location, which was misplaced on the computer map.
Turned out Columbine high school was about a mile straight east of where my kin lived, and Lindsay’s school was in a different attendance area in the massive Jefferson County Public Schools.
About a week later I was in Littleton – it had been a previously planned trip – and together we hiked up “Cross Hill” in the rain, and with hundreds of others, including pastor Robert Schuller of the Crystal Cathedral and his film crew, silently remembering and witnessing. Cross Hill was simply a pile of construction dirt, but it did overlook Columbine just a little to the east. It had its own controversy. The builder created and planted the crosses to each of the victims of the massacre at Columbine, including crosses to the killers, who had committed suicide after the deed. Someone else had come in and cut down those two other crosses….
Such is how grief works its way through, and in one way or another it will play out this way in the latest tragedy.
(It turned out that last night Lindsay, now married and living in the same neighborhood as in 1999, was at the midnight opening of Dark Knight Rises, but at another theater 20 miles away from Aurora.)
One never knows.
In the wake of Columbine I dug out an old handout from some workshop I had attended back in the early 1970s. It was one of those pieces of paper that seemed to be worth keeping, and I have kept it in its original somewhat primitive condition. A psychologist used the graphic to walk us through the stages of response to Crisis situations we might face.
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The stages in essence, and their approximate duration, are these:
IMPACT – Hours
RECOIL-TURMOIL – Days
ADJUSTMENT – Weeks
RECONSTRUCTION – Months
This is what “normal” response to a crisis looked like to some psychologist in 1972.
How will this latest tragedy be dealt with? How will it be used? The following days and weeks will tell the tale.
A good friend, a retired prosecutor in a major city, sent an e-mail this afternoon with an observation which occurred to him: “Every mass shooting in the United States has not occurred in a large city. They have all occurred either in rural areas, such as the Red Lake Reservation school shooting, or in suburbs such as Littleton (Columbine high School) or Aurora Colorado and the school in a small town outside of Cleveland, for example. What does that prove, what does that mean? I have no idea. Nor have I read of any analysis of this phenomenon, and I have searched for one/some.”
May we all seek non-violence as a solution to our problems.
UPDATES:
From Will:
1. Every time there is a national tragedy, every American wants the world to know where (s)he was and what (s)he was doing.
2. Are you saying, with no proof, that this film provoked the shooting? What if the theater had been showing a religious film and a shooting still took place?
3. Are you saying or suggesting we must start censoring, even banning films on the basis of their likelihood to provoke shootings? ACLU and CCR will come after you with both barrels!
4. If you believe Congress needs to pass stronger gun laws, use your computer skills and tell us which Congresspeople still in office received donations and in what amount from the NRA over the past five years and put it on your blog.
5. Write a letter to Sens. Franken and Klobuchar and your Congressperson—it’s Bachmann, isn’t it?—with your specific ideas on tightening gun controls.
Copy the NRA.
Response to Will from Dick:
1. Certainly, and why not? The only difference between now and 50 years ago is that most all of us can instantly communicate with most everyone anywhere.
2. No
3. No
4. Yes, member of Brady Campaign already, but not inclined to push my weight around in a blog. According to Brady Campaign, this year we already have over 54,000 gun-related deaths in the U.S. and we’re only halfway through 2012. We are awash in weaponry, but to even think about voting for some kind of gun-control is, at this moment, a political death sentence. The public does have to make a difference.
5. See #4. But the odds of any candidate for office actively pursuing gun control four months before the 2012 election are essentially zero. Groups like Brady Campaign know that, but I’m sure they are fully capable of thinking longer term.
There might be one or two that have some thoughts as a result of my blog. That’s all I can expect. It is pertinent and timely.
From Greg:
As it looks now, Friday evening, evidence points to serious mental illness on the part of the shooter.
Serious psychoses typically begin growing small during childhood/high school years, then burgeoning during college/graduate school.
The man is undeniably bright. Eventually we will learn whether he voluntarily dropped out of graduate school or whether the University asked him to leave. We will learn what his professors thought of him, and whether they saw similarities with the Virginia Tech shooter. What did the professors/ administration do to bring this man to the attention of the county mental health authorities? Keep in mind also that Colorado as with many other states is facing budget shortfalls. Mental health services historically are among the first government expenditures to be cut. Reason: There is just no natural lobby to press the legislature to retain funding. Compare mental health services with funding for highway construction, school aid, etc.
The mother of the young St Louis Park man who shot and killed two convenience store clerks was quoted in a newspaper article saying she knew her son had severe mental health problems but was unable to get medical care for him. Everyone will be abuzz for a week or two about this man, then something else will come up. A new legislature will be elected in Colorado November 6th. There will be other more pressing issues with which to deal. There may be some talk about this tragedy but basically nothing will be done. It will be yesterday’s news by then.
Someone who knows him was said to have described him as a loner, another indicator of mental illness.
Saw his father on cable tonight boarding a flight in San Diego for Denver. Got the quick impression the father is well educated and perhaps upper income class.
If this is even close to being true, what efforts did the father make to lead his son to mental health treatment? This is a major flaw in our society, that parents have no legal obligation to notify police their adult child is mentally ill, receiving no treatment and just may be dangerous
If a parent knows this to be true yet does nothing to warn authorities that parent faces no legal liability, civil or criminal if the adult child then shoots up a theater. Moral responsibility yes, but no civil or criminal responsibility.
Back to the shooter, look at his photo being shown on TV. Is that his booking photo taken after his post shooting arrest? The almost smirk he seems to have; another indicator of possible mental illness.
Now, a person can be seriously mentally ill but not have an insanity defense to criminal charges. Insanity is but one type of mental illness. Each state has its own definition of what constitutes insanity. In the days ahead we will learn what the Colorado standard is.
Look at the planning that went into this attack. Tonight we learned he had about 6000 rounds of ammunition for the four weapons he possessed. He wore an elaborate costume with protective gear. He had to make an effort to purchase all of that. Then he booby trapped his apartment. From the preliminary description we have of the apartment he must have spent quite some time and effort to purchase the materials with which he constructed the booby trap. The prosecution will argue the booby trapping effort is further evidence he understood the difference between right and wrong and constructed the booby traps as a way of avoiding capture.
from Carol: OK, a little bit miffed here at some responses. While I have due respect for prosecuting attorneys (retired or otherwise), I take exception to Greg’s trying to blame the parents. He wrote: “Got the quick impression the father is well educated and perhaps upper income class. If this is even close to being true, what efforts did the father make to lead his son to mental health treatment? This is a major flaw in our society, that parents have no legal obligation to notify police their adult child is mentally ill, receiving no treatment and just may be dangerous…”
If, of course, the parents were divorced – the father abusive, alcoholic or whatever – then they would get blamed for THAT. From all indications, in high school and so on this kid was not any weirder than his peers. He is legally an adult. His parents may, or may not, have made efforts to “lead” him to treatment, but they couldn’t force him. Greg wants what to change, exactly? What is the age cutoff where he thinks a parent should be “legally obligated” to notify authorities that their “adult child” may be mentally ill? 25? 35? 50? How about a child who is in school, working, married, living in another state – possibly has cut off contact? Should the parents be legally obligated to force themselves into his or her life?
And what exactly does he think the police are going to do with that information? Even this kid’s apartment mates didn’t know he was collecting an arsenal, boobytrapping his apartment, and risking all their lives. If the police ran around checking on every adult child who the parents fear may be mentally unstable, they wouldn’t get anything else done.
Those who have daily contact with an individual are the best assessors. And in this case, you have the sinking feeling that there was very little to set off alarms.
It does seem the best indicator should have been that someone who in a short period of time bought several weapons, a ton of ammunition, complete bulletproof clothing, plus chemicals and bomb-making materials was in deep trouble, and should have been on the police radar. But we can’t have any coordinated database of this kind of thing, of course. That infringes on our civil rights – having our kids shot in a crowded theatre does not.

#588 – Dick Bernard: Election 2012 #28. "Obamacare" or "Obama cares" Part 2. Thoughts following the Supreme Court Decision.

UPDATE July 1: An excellent 9 minute video summary from the Kaiser Family Foundation on the Affordable Care Act (ACA) is here. This slices through the complexities. July 3: from the same source, a ten question quiz on what you know about ACA here.
Many comments follow this post under UPDATES:
I posted #587 before the Supreme Court ruled on June 28. It now includes 23 comments which speak for themselves.
Today has been a wild one…from the Right…how dare Justice Roberts rule as he did? (they say) I follow this stuff, and the TV ads are disgusting, but who cares. Lies don’t bother anyone any more, or so it seems.
Yesterday I wrote as I did because I lived within the vulnerable reality of almost no medical insurance while my wife, Barbara, was dying of kidney disease in 1963-65. I know how it is, not just how it might feel. I have a first-person real life experience that I feel is relevant.
Since our experience happened nearly 50 years ago (that’s hard to believe), I have had more than ample opportunities to revisit all the aspects of those two difficult years, which ended with my flushing down an Anoka toilet a cake pan full of unused pills of many varieties left by my deceased wife; then preparing to file for bankruptcy to get out from under very large medical bills a couple of months later.
Been there, done that.
I have some thoughts after yesterday:
Sometimes I hear the “God’s Will” narrative. It was God’s Will that Barbara died at 22.
I have no beef with God, though I have no specific idea of who God might be. There are people who seem sure that they know all about God, but their opinions seem to differ, so end of that story. God is a mystery even to the experts who say they know….
Anyway, when God ruled the roost, let’s say that was in Jesus’ time, over 2000 years ago, Barbara would have died, regardless of her station in life, and there would have been no child. Nor would there have been doctor or hospital bills or the pills or other assorted residue of a terrible illness. She could have been royalty. The outcome would have been the same. There would have been no other story to tell. She died. (A friend, who has a PhD and is an ordained Christian minister and anthropologist who has spent much time studying human history, says that already in Jesus’ time there were 250-300 million people world-wide, in places like India, China, Africa. What is now the Middle East had only a tiny number of these people..)
With relatively minor variations, the above kind of narrative would be consistent until recent times.
100 years before Barbara’s illness, the American Civil War was raging. There were hospitals and such, but one didn’t especially want to be sick or injured in those days.
Comprehensive and complicated medical care is very recent and remains an unattainable luxury to the vast majority of the world’s peoples.
Barbara lived about two years after her illness was diagnosed. Even with inadequate insurance it was possible to cobble together some kind of equitable treatment for her. But it took family, friends, neighbors, doctors and hospitals (church and community) who were willing to take her in off the street with no assurance of payment. And more than a little luck.
We weren’t ‘legal resident’ anywhere during that time, so who was going to pay the public welfare cost was an active question.
I could’ve gotten insurance when the insurance guy came around a week or so after I started teaching, but I only got the doctor portion.
I’ve thought a lot about that.
At the time, I was 23. I had a boatload of things on my mind, and getting sick wasn’t one of them. Barbara wasn’t sick, and I’d gotten past two years in the Army without ailments. In hindsight, I was foolish. At the time, my decision was probably rational – like those folks in Duluth recently who didn’t think they needed flood insurance, and lost everything…. And almost certainly, Barbara had an unknown pre-existing condition which would have disqualified her from coverage anyway.
(When we got married in 1963 a friendly insurance agent sold me a $5000 policy on my life. He added a rider for $1250 on Barbara’s life. Of course, the thinking then was that I was the “breadwinner” and she would live on…. Logically, the coverage should have been the reverse.)
Now the debate rages anew about “Obamacare” or “Obama cares”.
I’ve noted only a few things:
It was said that 250 million Americans do have some kind of insurance. That means 85% of us are insured. Why deny the other 15%? As happened in my case years ago, we’ll pay their bills anyway. We haven’t reached the point where the sick person down the street dies in the gutter because it’s his or her problem. We do have deep compassion. Why make it so hard for those who don’t have insurance? It makes no sense.
It is said that many, perhaps most, Americans don’t like Obamacare.
This is one of those really interesting assertions that I hope is dis-aggregated at some point. There is an extremely odd loose “coalition” in opposition to Obamacare. It includes those who hate the very idea, of course. But it includes also those who think the Act didn’t go far enough, and the people like the lady who wrote comment #4 in #587 who apparently rejects the plan because she doesn’t like some particular aspect of it, like, perhaps, birth control. There are lots of these single-issue opponents. It’s not productive in a nation of over 300,000,000.
For reasons already mentioned, I don’t suspect that God has a “dog in this fight”. This is a human being issue. Among us.
This is a classic Wealth vs Democracy kind of question, and we’re well advised to be engaged in the upcoming debate, particularly Election 2012.

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UPDATES:
1. Sabrina: Thanks for sharing.
2. Bruce: Your personal narrative is good and helps make your point(s). I do agree that the ACA is important policy, and as it unfolds, it will be modified and changed to deal with the problems that will develop.
Two points I have to make. First, “Obamacare” is a pejorative. Its a slur and shouldn’t be used to describe what is said to be the most important piece of social policy since the New Deal. The sooner this ugly term evaporates from the public consciousness the faster it will be accepted as an entitlement for the American people. Second, for the most part the responses you received from # 587 seem to think that “liberals” won the day because Roberts sided with the “liberal” side of the court. They should be reminded that the ACA is a conservative policy that presents a market place solution to health care. It will make a lot of money for insurance companies, their executives, and their stock owners at the expense of the people. This is not liberal policy, and if you think so, you have be numbed by the slide to the right of the American political system over the last 30 yrs. Liberal policy is being implemented in Vermont where it looks like the first single payer universal health plan will be enacted.
3. John: This is good, Dick.
4. Norm: A powerful revelation and recollection, Dick.
Thank you.
That is the kind of rubber meets the road impact of the lack of health care coverage in the face of a major illness or traumatic injury that the opponents of “Obamacare” and/or universal access to medically necessary health care (to me the most important public policy issue in the health care debate and discussion) don’t seem to understand or, perhaps more correctly, understand but do not want to accept. As per my brother, access to medically necessary health “is not a right!!!” Of course, he enjoys Medicare and Tricare but he would, of course argue, that he earned his ability to utilize both programs due to his career of work and military service. “If folks want health care coverage, they can just get a job that offers it. Why in the living hell should I have to pay for health care coverage for free loaders who do not want to work and just expect the government to take care of them…” or words to that effect.
It appears that lots of folks share the views on my brother, all of whom will support the car maker’s kid this fall with the hope that he will follow through on his long-standing promise to get rid of “Obamacare.” Our own family was of very modest means living on a marginal farm in north central Minnesota where my Dad supplemented the limited farm income with sales of mutual fire insurances, organizing for Farmers Union, and later, serving in the state senate. We didn’t have much but as the cliche goes, we never thought of ourselves as poor as we had much more than many of our neighbors and so on. On the other hand, our parents gave us the world in that they always made sure that we were subscribed to a daily newspaper, took many of the leading magazines of the day, i.e. Look, Life and so on, something that the parents of many of my classmates did not do which was always surprising to me. On the other hand, while we had some limited health insurance through Group Health (we were co-op people through and through), our parents had to struggle to cover the costs of major injuries and so on. My right wing brother spent 6-8 weeks in the hospital with a broken hip he suffered after falling down the ladder to the haymow in our barn which I am sure put a heavy strain on family finances, a situation that still is present for many, many people yet today.
5. Carol: Wow, Dick, right on!!
My husband’s niece and her husband lived in a mobile home, had two adorable daughters. They were struggling, but they both had jobs. She changed jobs – a convenience store, but it provided insurance. Then she became pregnant with their 3rd child, but hey, she had insurance. There were problems with the pregnancy, she spent time in the hospital, and the baby was born very prematurely – of course, also spending weeks in the hospital. But, they had insurance. Except that since the baby came early (and didn’t wait the required 9 months), her insurance company decreed that she had a pre-existing condition when she obtained the policy, and denied all coverage.
They struggled to pay the hospital bill. The hospital (in Wichita, I’d like the world to know) hounded them unmercifully. Her parents tried to help. When the bill was paid down to $30,000, they were forced to file for bankruptcy. Things went downhill. One morning at 5 a.m. I answered the phone to hear my bro-in-law say that the husband had picked up a gun and killed the entire family.
Obviously medical bills, or bankruptcy, don’t kill people. Neither do guns, they tell me. But they all help push at-risk situations over the edge. In my opinion, that insurance company, and hospital, are as guilty of murder as he was.
The Supreme Court ruling finally won one for Sandy.
6. Kathy: As Paul Wellstone once said” We all do better when we all do better.”
7. Joyce: My Mom and my Dad’s sister died from Alzheimer’s – this is huge:
‘Tucked away in the act is a pilot program for 10,000 people called the Independence At Home program. This is a technique first developed by the Veterans Administration — motto: Single-Payer Works! Just Ask
Us! — by which a patient with a chronic disease, like Alzheimer’s, is treated in his or her own home by a team of doctors, nurse practitioners, geriatric pharmacists, and any other health professional whose specialty is required. This is not only cost-efficient, being infinitely cheaper than hospitals and nursing homes, but it is a comfort for the patients and their families, for whom familiar surroundings can be essential for psychological well-being.’
8. Jermitt: Thanks Dick for sharing some of your early personal family history. I also remember the 60’s when health insurance was a luxury. When school districts first provided health insurance, it was only for the “head of the household” which primarily met you had to be a male teacher. It wasn’t until teachers were able to collectively bargain that women were included in most contracts in most school districts.
9. Larry:Excellent post you wrote on Barbara and her illness, sad story but needs telling to all of these “compassionate” conservatives.
Thank God for Medicare and, unlike some of the comments, Medicare A and B with a private supplement has been great, effective, and popular solution to senior health care, without bankrupting every person 65 and older in this country. What in the world would we do without the program that, yes, a “liberal” Democrat signed into law? You’d be okay if you’re on Veterans’ Benefits or you’re a Congressman.
Medicare operates on 1 to 2% administrative costs. Blue Cross plans operate on 10% and other insurance companies are upwards of that, sometimes approaching 30% and 40%. The Affordable Healthcare Act reins in some of those outrageous insurance company profits.
I always wonder what the Republican answer is to the 50 million uninsured. Status quo? Keep those paying for insurance paying for those without? Also, without Medicare or Medicaid, what’s the solution? Give sick people a gun? Is that the Republican plan? I’ve heard none other except Congressman Paul Ryan’s Medicare “Advantage,” which involves a severely limited provider network. Talk about getting between you, your doctor and payment, Medicare Advantage does that in spades. Medicare A and B combined with a standard supplement gives you a choice of thousands of doctors, without interference.
Is there waste? Yes. Medicine itself is sometimes more art than science, any good doctor will tell you that. Is there fraud? Of course, a certain number of docs who call themselves “conservatives” and are card carrying Republicans screw the Medicare and Medicaid programs and the taxpayer. Fix that. Don’t kill these much needed program.
At the bottom line, are we a country ruled by the almighty dollar? Is that the criteria? Cut taxes, but who cares about caring for the sick, unless they can pay. Is that the kind of country we want? Cut taxes but let the roads and bridges go to hell. But make the sure the defense-contractor-political-contributors have plenty, like the $651 billion the Republicans just voted for to make more nuclear bombs. We’ve had enough of these for decades; sufficient to blow up the entire world several times over. But, hey, defense contractors gotta eat. Let Grandma go bankrupt with no decent Medicare and don’t heal poor sick people because “it costs too much.” Fear of fears, we just might have to raise taxes. Oh-my-God! No wonder Canadians, who love their health care system, can’t understand the USA. Their biggest fear is getting sick while in America, NOT in going to the kind of health care financing system we have.
Dick..Whew!! Ya got me started. You have my permission to post any of that with my name: Larry Gauper 🙂 My blog is at www.Wordchipper.com and the email address I use with that is on the blog..
Thanks for sharing..and stimulating my thoughts…haha….good to hear from you…Larry
10. Jeanne: (the person referred to as #4 in #587) My issue is not a “single issue” unless you consider religious liberty a single issue.
My conscience tells me that some of the things that are being done and I am being forced to pay for are immoral. If you consider something immoral or against your beliefs should you be forced to pay for it for someone else?
Or do you really believe that there is nothing that is immoral?
11. Marvin: Obama Care. Drastic increase in my Medicare costs over the next few years and a very interesting side note, if I should downsize the home I sweated to acquire for a smaller home I will be hit with a 3.8% sales tax. If you can do the math, that amounts to a whopping $11,400. I am not a happy camper with the LIBERAL JUDGES decision on Obama Care. And the flim flam of no added taxes….
A. UPDATE July 4: I asked Marvin to be specific about the 3.8% sales tax and he responded late July 3 with a link provided by a realtor relative which referenced the National Association of Realtors and turned out to be from the Republican Party in April, 2010, about three weeks after the ACA was signed into Law. A simple google search found as first listing, an undated but apparently recent pdf of a booklet issued by the National Association of Realtors which is very specific about the topic. Snopes.com also takes on the issue here. Succinctly, the 3.8% applies only to the wealthiest Americans, commonly called the 2% or 1% highest incomes. The specifics are in the referenced booklet.
12. Ellen: Thank you Dick, words cannot express what this means to us to people like us. It is a step in the right direction but we need many more steps…
Still 30 Million will be left out. I sent this to HCAMn… we changed our name as you know.
13. Greg: July 1, 2012 Star Tribune (Strib) op ed page has editorial comment from other papers on Affordable Care Act (ACA). [see also here] Also, compare comments of most people on ruling discussing concepts/implications to health care and comments from conservatives who view this as just a game. For example letter to the editor in today’s Strib faults Obama for saying ACA does not increase tax and yet Supreme Court said it did impose a tax. Implication is that “Ha,we won since Supreme Court agreed with us that ACA does impose a tax”. And just what does that “analysis” mean to anything/anybody? Since when has government, our common voice as a society become only a contact sport?
14. Carol: This is in response to “Jeanne #10” who says, “My conscience tells me that some of the things that are being done and I am being forced to pay for are immoral. If you consider something immoral or against your beliefs should you be forced to pay for it for someone else? Or do you really believe that there is nothing that is immoral?” (I assume she’s asking that question of Mr. Bernard, which is pretty derogatory.)
I’m not sure what this has to do with the Supreme Court decision – however, I’ll wade in. Many of us who pay taxes believe various things those taxes are used for to be immoral. We considered the invasion of Iraq – based on attempts to persuade us that they had WMDs and were responsible for 9/11 – to be very immoral, for example. We didn’t get to withhold part of our taxes because of that belief.
Altho’ my husband and I are fortunate to have good employer-provided medical coverage, I know that our insurance company also tries to find “pre-existing conditions” in order to deny coverage to others (inc. once to my daughter – who didn’t even have the condition they decided on). To me, that’s very immoral, but we don’t get to withhold part of our premiums on that basis.
Jeanne may be referring to the contraception flap. Some believe that contraception is immoral. I believe that it is immoral to force a woman to become pregnant against her wishes. I believe that it is immoral for someone to keep having children they cannot reasonably care for. There are many different religions and beliefs in this country. If everyone who objected to their money being used for something or other refused to pay their taxes (or for health care), the country would grind to a halt. If something is legal, then yes, sometimes we are forced to help pay for it, even if it goes against our personal beliefs. That is not a new concept.
15. Dick and Jeanne: #10 initiated this e-mail exchange between Dick and Jeanne, which is added with Jeanne’s permission. This kind of uncomfortable conversation is essential, and lacking, in our society. Of course, there could be endless “call and response” on this and many other issues, and I won’t add beyond what Jeanne and I shared on-line, but I run towards, rather than away, from these kinds of conversations.
A. Dick: Living in a society is a complex issue. If we were all to demand our right to not pay for the things we don’t agree with, there would be chaos.
We’re in a town home association with 96 resident owners. Even with 96 there are people who have issues about some things. Democracy in our association means that we elect a board to represent us (my wife is current president), and if the issues are big, like siding the units, the whole association votes, and the majority rules. The ones who hold out can be and are forced to pay, and if they refuse to pay are fined, and if they don’t pay are occasionally foreclosed. They don’t like it, but that’s how democracy works. We can’t be free agents.
Personally, I’ve been in any number of leadership positions over the years, and in every instance, there is somebody who will disagree with something, but there’s a process to deal with this.
But, again, if you care to, let me know the precise issue(s).
It would help me if you could tell me exactly what it is that upsets you. Then maybe we could have a conversation. What are the “things”, if you’re willing to answer?
B. Jeanne: Go see the movie For Greater Glory. It will help to reinforce what I am saying.
I do not know if it is worth my time getting into a discussion about this or not. Coverage for abortion, sterilization, and contraception by the HHS [Health and Human Services] mandate requires going against religious beliefs. Your example (note- I live in a town home with an association also) does not involve forcing a person to violate their beliefs. Why do I hold these beliefs? Not because the Catholic Church tells me to but because of a deeply held conviction that God is the author of human life. We are to work in cooperation with him. I can think of no reason that can justify abortion.
My son is alive because his birth mother was raped and made a courageous choice. This choice allowed her not to be violated twice but to bring something good out of something harmful.
I am one of a small 2% that survive with Turner Syndrome. Doctors can be wrong and when I was diagnosed little was known about it. Disabilities do not justify abortion either. Contraception and sterilization allow human beings to say in effect, ” I will not give myself completely to you”. They allows men to be dispensible and there to be no commitment. They cause health problems as well . I am not the most well versed woman to explain more. Read about Theology of the Body to understand more.
If my beliefs can be forcibly violated, so can yours. That is not how America was founded.
C. Dick: I’m just back from Basilica, where I ushered again today.
I looked For Greater Glory. It’s not playing here to my knowledge. When/If the film shows up here, I will see it. Please remind me.
What you say is helpful for my understanding of where you’re coming from.
The business of abortion, birth control and the like is a matter of belief and as you doubtless know, there are many beliefs, including among fervent Christians, of what ‘life’ is defined as being. Those who are zealots in the pro-life movement perhaps could be accused of having the same mindset that the Mexican Government had in the 1920s. (I know nothing more about that situation than the brief reviews of the movie.) It gets tricky when one tries to impose his/her/their beliefs on others.
There were a great many learnings for me in those two harsh years of 1963-65. One was about abortion. In fact, I wrote about it three years or so ago: here, October 12, 2009.
I won’t impose my belief on you. Please don’t impose your belief on me.
I know [why] you’re on my list…. I think I might have met you once…. It is rare that I depart from the ___ topic on the list. In this instance, I felt it was important. I haven’t censored any comments, and I sent the commentaries to many people, many of whom consider themselves very conservative.
PS: I looked up Turner Syndrome as I had not heard of it.
FYI, my youngest daughter, Heather, now 36, is Down Syndrome and has lived with an implanted heart pacemaker for 32 of those years. She is something of a medical marvel, and a marvel in all ways.
She lives in a small group setting in Apple Valley and I see her frequently, most recently on Friday. She and I will go to a movie sometime this week. Her biologic mother, my second wife, died of cancer six years ago. We had been divorced for many years. I have written about Heather on a number of occasions in the blog. Just put Heather in the search box.
We did not know she was Down until after she was born. Knowing would have made no difference. Her condition was of no issue at all to me; it was very difficult for her mother to accept, and it added to tension in the marriage (we had two other daughters, and I had the one son from the first marriage.)
I say this only to say that I have walked the walk, too, in a sense.
D. Jeanne: go ahead and post. Others may learn from the discussion.
Greater Glory had been showing here in past weeks. Perhaps it no longer is.
16. Carol: I read the “conversation” between Dick and Jeanne [#15 above], in which he said some of the same things that I had tried to.
I’m really sick of abortion being dragged into every debate, frankly. That’s been the case for all my life, and I’m not going to get into it here. But I do want to say that I admire Jeanne for apparently adopting her son. Adoptive parents (and good foster parents) are to me some of our greatest heroes. But my comment is (and correct me if I’m wrong, either of you): Federal funds cannot now be used for abortion. I am sure that that is true of the Affordable Care Act, as well. And, if so, why are you bringing this up? [Dick: so far as I know, the answer is “no, they can’t”].
As far as contraception issues – people should really learn to pick their battles. Equating free birth control pills (or every other issue which one doesn’t agree with) to Nazi Germany – as some have done – is beyond offensive, and only serves to diminish the horror which occurred there.
16A & B: Carol continuing on the topic, later June 2:
The Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act
Abortion Provisions

The Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act maintains the status quo on abortion policy and does not shift federal abortion policy in either a pro-life or pro-choice direction. The following provisions will ensure that the bill does nothing to restrict or expand existing abortion law, while ensuring that federal funds cannot be used for abortion coverage or care.
Health Plans Cannot Be Required to Cover Abortion. Health plans cannot be required to cover abortions as part of its essential health benefits package. Health plans can choose to cover: no abortions, only those abortions allowed by the Hyde amendment (rape, incest and life endangerment), or abortions beyond those allowed by Hyde.
No Federal Funds for Abortion Coverage or Abortion Care. Tax credits or cost sharing subsidies may not be used for abortions not permitted by Hyde. Private premiums would be segregated from public funds, and only private premiums could pay for abortion services beyond those permitted by Hyde.
No Federal Funds for Abortion Coverage in the Community Health Insurance Option.
The Secretary may not determine that the Community Health Insurance Option provide
coverage for abortions beyond those allowed by Hyde unless the Secretary:… 2)
guarantees that, based on three different accounting standards, no federal funds are used… A State may elect to require coverage of abortions beyond those allowed by Hyde, only if no federal funds are used for this coverage…
No Preemption of State or Federal Laws Regarding Abortion. The bill stipulates there is
no preemption of State laws regarding abortion coverage, funding or procedural requirements on abortion like parental notification or consent. Similarly, the bill stipulates that there is no preemption of Federal laws regarding abortion, including federal conscience protections…
Conscience Protections for Providers and Facilities. Individual health care providers and health care facilities may not be discriminated against because of a willingness or
unwillingness to provide, pay for, provide coverage of, or refer for abortions.
Conversely, no wonder people believe the lies. (But you notice, they can’t spell “abortion”…)
17. Bruce: The ACA is the law of the land being upheld by the Supreme Court. Its a big decision on an issue that is 14% of our economy. I’m not a Charles Krauthammer fan, far from it, but he at least in the initial stages of Monday morning quarterbacking, made the best analysis of the Robert’s decision. Time will pass and the decision excitement will simmer down. For those, like me, who favor single payer and to pay for it install a tax, which was the center of Roberts’ decision, on payroll look to Vermont for hope. It will be the States that lead the way to true universal health care for this country. The States need the help that single payer promises because they are broke. Its basic federalism and maybe that’s the way it should work. The ACA will help the States with that. It codifies into law universal health care as an entitlement and provides funding for States to experiment.
If you haven’t read the original opinion piece, here it is.
18. Joyce: A good explanation as to why we have not been able to implement a single payer system: here.
19. Greg: who sends on a forwarded graphic which says: “Paradox: The Government wants everyone to prove that they are insured; but people don’t have to prove they are citizens…”
His response: So, Tom, hypocrisy has changed to a paradox. Hmmmmmmmmmmm
Actually the government doesn’t give a rip if people are insured or not. If not purchasing health care insurance, people can just pay a tax.
Remember, my pancreatitis has cost more than $700,000.00. I am just one person. Baby boomers comprise 20 per cent of the population. They are just entering their medicare years. Health care costs continually rise, taking up a greater portion of our GNP each year. Will sitting back and just criticizing the federal government adequately address this problem?
The Affordable Care Act (ACA), comprising about one thousand pages contains many provisions, some of which seek to address inefficiencies in the delivery of health care.
No one ever has said the ACA will solve all problems with health care delivery. It is just a start. There remains a lot of heavy lifting to be accomplished.
Numerous studies of people who have filed for individual bankruptcy protection list unpaid medical bills as one of the major reasons for bankruptcy filing.
Every year more and more people are alive, having defeated cancer.
Yet, by repealing the ACA we would lose the protection from insurance companies excluding preexisting conditions from policy coverage. Insurance companies would also be free to re institute lifetime caps on health care benefits.
How can that be labeled progress?
Health care delivery is such a huge animal I fully expect the ACA will need to be amended as we gain more experience with it. We need to rally as a society to make it work better.
20. Rick: Actually I was pleased….
Not that I like the ACA, because I don’t and I don’t like the way it was done up in congress and forced through the system. But that’s a different discussion.
I like the decision that now at least I have a ray of hope that we have 1 branch of government and a chief justice that can make a decision based on the rule of law and the constitution. Not on ideological grounds. The rest of Washington could take some pointers and direction from C.J. Roberts on how to govern.
21. Jeff: I think [ACA] is a nonevent for the mkt
The mkts are reacting to the newest bandaid from Europe on the situation there, no doubt by Tuesday they will realize it’s a problem that needs triage, not bandaids.
Hey O’Reilly’s buddy Justice Roberts stabbed the right leaning side in the back! [My wife} watched news nonstop yesterday on CNN, Fox and MSNBC and PBS getting all the sides.
I agree with you it’s a cobbled mess.
But it is interesting to see Romney… how does he campaign against something he passed in Massachusetts… and also the Corporate interests are in favor of Obamacare (which is why one should be skeptical of it) so does he throw his birthright (corporate capitalism) away for the Tea Party? Its all passing strange.
Part One of this post is here.

#587 – Dick Bernard: Election 2012 #27. "Obamacare" or "Obama cares"

UPDATE: 23 comments below. A second post on this topic, with additional comments, is accessible here.

Dick and Barbara Bernard as Godparents, March, 1965, four months before Barbara's death.


I’m publishing this a few hours before the Big Release of the Supreme Court decision on what has come to be known as “Obamacare”.
I have no prediction.
All I know is the reality, learned at too young an age, about what it means to be desperately ill and uninsured.
Perhaps someone will read this, and get the message and maybe even change their mind about “Obamacare” (which I deliberately choose to label “Obama cares” in the headline.)
Forty-nine years ago, in mid-October of 1963, fresh out of the U.S. Army, I began teaching school in a small school district in northern Minnesota. Medical Insurance, then, was strictly an elective affair. You wanted it, you got it on your own, and you paid for it.
I was 23 years old. I signed up for doctor but not hospital insurance.
My new wife was even younger than I, also a first year teacher in another school district.
Two weeks after I started teaching, Barbara, already feeling ill, went to see the doctor (a few miles north, in Canada), found out that her kidneys were not working right. She had to resign from teaching two months into her contract. She was pregnant. We began a new unplanned-for life.
Three weeks later, President Kennedy was assassinated.
Those years you couldn’t say “Time out. I think I’ll take some of that hospital insurance now.” Besides, her kidney condition was “pre-existing”.
We struggled on through almost two years of hell.
There is no heroic way to describe it. We just plodded on through it. At the end of May, 1965, she collapsed in a coma at home. She left our town in an ambulance to Bismarck ND; then, in a few days, on to Minneapolis.
At University Hospital they admitted a non-resident patient with no insurance and no ability to pay.
And on July 24, 1965, in Minneapolis, far away from our North Dakota home, Barbara died at University Hospital, not living long enough to receive a kidney transplant, a procedure then in its infancy.
July 29, 1965, on a blustery hilltop in Valley City ND, Barbara was laid to rest. Son Tom, one, was there, as were friends and family.
I came back to the Twin Cities to start the new job I’d received three days before she died. In the fall, as I was preparing to file for bankruptcy, North Dakota Public Welfare came through and paid most of the major medical expense we had incurred. Our bills, while equivalent to over two years of my then-salary, were minuscule compared to today.
My son and I lived with a kind family who provided babysitting for my son, and a room for me, and I worked much of that first year at two jobs. And ultimately survived.
It wasn’t until many years later that I learned that the day after my wife was buried, July 30, 1965, President Lyndon Johnson signed the Medicare Act into Law. Now, 47 years later, I have a certain amount of seniority in the wonderful Medicare program.
And we wait for a ruling, momentarily, where some people are hoping that “Obamacare” will be tossed on the trash heap, and the health safety net, complicated enough as it is, will be made even more fragile.
For years I’ve heard all the arguments about why there shouldn’t be some significant version of National Health. Lately I’ve had to endure a TV ad of some supposed family physician lamenting the evil of Obamacare: that some of her patients might not be able to have their appointments with her anymore; and further asserting, without any supportive data, that Obamacare will drive up health care costs even more.
And I think back to those years of 1963-65, when I was in my twenties, and my wife was dying without insurance, and we were broke.
Whatever happens with the Supreme Court today, the reality will remain, for me, that everybody in this wealthy nation of ours deserves the best in education and health care, regardless of their means.
I’ll be interested in the ruling today….

Dick Bernard and Barbara Sunde, wedding day, June, 1963


Relevant and related to this post: here.
UPDATES:
1. Sue: Thanks so much for sharing this story…
2. Molly: powerful post, Dick, thanks. And I’m reading this just below a headline which says that SCOTUS did NOT destroy the ACA… praise the Lord! (…as flawed as it is…) whew.
3. Deborah: dick -Your story is so touching and so very sad!. You are no doubt thrilled at the announcement today from the Supreme court.Thousands of people who would have died or lived a deeply compromised quality of life can today breathe a sigh of relief!
4. Jeanne: Sorry Dick but I beg to differ. I don’t think anyone wants people not to be able to receive affordable medical care.
I have a genetic condition myself.
However, the federal government has not been known to produce positive results.
Our countries understood that the more control that is given to a government the more they can dictate and put power in the hands of one or a few persons.
Our freedom is being taken away.
I will be forced to support things that are against my conscience. If Obama can do that to one group, he can do it to you too.
Yes our health care system needs reform. But not this way.
5. Carole: thank you for this. i am celebrating.
6. Melvin: You have a wonderful gift of writing. I can’t wait to read your book. Thank you for always sharing more of yourself. I know you are touching people’s hearts and minds, which results in human transformation. Keep sharing your wisdom and understanding. It is making a difference!
7. Joe: That was a very powerful message. Thanks.
8. Kathy: Well we can celebrate this small piece of evidence that not EVERYTHING is predetermined along partisan lines.
Thank you for sharing the touching tribute to Barbara and congratulations on your own healthy survival.
9. Carol: I was in the dentist’s chair this morning and Dr. _____ said “I loved your letter in the Bulletin yesterday.” (Gotta love your dentist when he reads your letters :\ Then he went on to complain about that exact commercial you referenced (I haven’t seen it), and he said that he was going to have a very bad day today if they overturned Obamacare. Almost immediately his assistant read scrolling across the computer screen that the Supreme Court had upheld it. We high-5’d (about all you can do with your mouth full of stuff 🙂
10. Susan: What a great ruling! Who’d’ve thunk that Roberts would ended up being on “our side” of the decision?!?
11. Alan: There must still be some people in certain news organizations that declared “Dewey Beats Truman” in 1948 (remember the headlines in the Chicago Tribune?) The first news flash about Obamacare was that the Supreme Court struck it down!! So who won? WE THE PEOPLE WON!!!
Thank you, Mr. President for caring enough to finally see that ALL Americans will have health care. As far as I am concerned, you should be President for Life!!!
12. Christine: Extremely relevant and interesting and moving. Thank you Dick for sharing this with as many people as you can. It shows one of so many examples of why everybody should have the right to be treated with no restrictions of revenue or pre condition or anything at all.
13. Mary: Thanks for sharing these hard memories.
14. Leila: Thank you for sharing this story, and especially the photographs. Barb and I were friends, so they are even more meaningful to me.
15. Debi: What a sad story. Made me cry. Glad that no one will have to face the same difficulties now.
16. Bruce: The best thing about ACA is that it codifies universal coverage into law. Now let the states take us all the way there by implementing a true not for profit Health Care System. Relevant links here and here. Canadians got universal, nonprofit health insurance one province at a time. Let follow the Canadian model and let the states lead the way to real Universal Coverage.
17. Harriette: I just don’t know what to say. I’m glad you’re in my camp. I prize our email acquaintance. You must send this to the Obama people.
18. Madeline: I was certainly happy and relieved that the Affordable Health Care law was upheld by the Supreme Court today, but I have two comments, below. As Ted Kennedy said, “take what you can get.” I think it is a step in the direction toward universal single payer health care.
1. Justice Roberts had already done his dirty work with “Citizens United,” which could make it very difficult for Democrats to win at every level in the Nov. election, and which could put this new law in serious jeopardy. He could side with the liberals on this issue, hoping to make the Court look less partisan, and because of Citizens United, he probably thought he risked nothing. Besides, some of the justices are aging, there may be appointments necessary in the next administration, and if a Republican is elected president, those would likely be conservative.
2. I watched Ch. 5 news around 5-6 pm and again caught coverage at 10. There was a significant difference between the reporting from the dinner hour and the 10 pm report. They obviously had been fed some Republican lies in the meantime which they were expected to present as the “Cons” against the “Pros.”
Peace,
Madeline
[T]he right “recognizes something that few on the left recognize: that campaign finance law underlies all other substantive law.” Mother Jones:ort How to Sweep Dark Money Out of Politics, Undoing Citizens United, the DIY guide
19. Kathy: At 9:15 [a.m.] Fox was yelling “Health Care Ruled Unconstitutioal//we knew it, we knew it..CNN was saying the same thing …It was a 50 page decision..and Fox misread it and had to correct their err…I was listening to NPR and they were copying CNN and then they realized it was incorrect.
20. Norm: Stuff happens!
May remind some of the more senior seniors of a similar mistake headline in 1948 stating that Dewey Defeats Truman with a similar reaction from HST to that of President Obama!
Kind of surprising that CNN didn’t check things out better but less surprising that Fox News did it as well. On the other hand, one of my brothers insists that Fox News is the only accurate news source around so…
21. Jim: I have a sister that claims CNN is a left-leaning lying news source. Only Fox News can be trusted. I’d imagine that she believes that the ACA was struck down but due to a White House deal with the devil was made whole again.
22. Kathy: Rachel Maddow [MSNBC] said President Obama was watching CNN when they said Health Care had been defeated…until a female lawyer came in later and gave him 2 thumbs up..
23. Jeff: Count me in the group of shocked. Although I think Roberts was looking for a little “liberal love”. And he is getting it, along with scorn from the Right wing…. This too shall pass. He personally has presided over the most corporation friendly court in many years, liberals who are praising his decision here ought not get so overdone with praise. Just sayin.

#585 – Dick Bernard: Visiting History

Some months ago a cousin I’d never met in person, JoAnn (Wentz) Beale, wrote from California, suggesting that we get together when she came to an event in her home town of Grafton ND. It was a great idea. Her grandmother, Elize Collette Wentz, and my grandmother, Josephine Collette Bernard, were siblings, raised on the home farm, still owned by Maurice D. and Isabell Collette, just west of Sacred Heart Church in Oakwood. Maurice is the son of Elize and Josephine’s youngest sibling, Alcide.
JoAnn and I spent the better part of an afternoon and early evening visiting the sites of our Collette family history.
It was a most enriching day.
Maurice D showed us around, and JoAnn posed on the site of the Collette home which was occupied from about 1885 till 1978, when Collette’s built a new home just to the south. Here’s JoAnn, June 25, 2012, on the site of the old house. (click to enlarge)

JoAnn Beale on the site of the Octave and Clotilde Collette home, Oakwood ND June 25, 2012


I found a few earlier photos from that same farm yard a few years earlier:

1954 photo, Unlabelled photo summer lunch in the farmyard just to the south of the old house. Apparent identities as known. Isabel Collette probably took the photograph. At right: Bonnie and Maurice Collette; at the end Margaret (Krier) and Alcidas Corriveau; (couple in between not known); at left Beatrice and Alcide Collette; at end of the table Josephine and Henry Bernard. The other persons are not known, and the photo is not labelled.


Alcide and Beatrice Collette with Donald David, in the farmhouse, probably in 1956.


Photo old Maurice D Collette house with new house in background. Photo taken in 1979, looking southeast; new house was built in 1977-78. Old house was torn down about 1981.


JoAnn and I spent time, of course, in and around the magnificent Sacred Heart Church, which is due to be closed within the next two years. I’ve put together a small Facebook album of photographs taken on June 25 here. That’s Maurice D. Collette with JoAnn in one of the photos in front of the church. (The entire Centennial History of the parish, from 1981, can be accessed here.)
I’ve been to Oakwood many times, but until June 25 had never actively sought out the site of the old St. Aloysius School, and found it, at least as represented in the driveway and the flagpole, and the lumber used to build two homes on the site, about a block north of the church. Across the street remains the Grotto. All these are in the Facebook album.
We had a cool drink with Maurice in the tavern across the street from the Church, then took a little tour and back to Grafton.
Before dinner, I took a solitary drive to see the little house at 738 Cooper, the only place I ever knew as my grandparent Bernard’s home.
This time, for the first time in my life, there was no house there.

former 739 Cooper Avenue, Grafton ND, June 25, 2012


It caused me to think back to other photos of other times at that little house down the block from the Court House in Grafton.

Henry and Josephine at 738 Cooper Ave, Grafton, probably early in the 1940s


Grandpa and Grandma on the front porch, probably late 1940s. Here's where they watched the world go by, at least on Cooper Avenue.


Grandma Bernard "myself in the kitchen" at 738 Cooper.


Undated photo of a meal in the living room at 738 Cooper. Note photo of their son Frank Bernard on the wall behind them.


In the last photo, I can’t help but think of the time, at Thanksgiving I think, where Grandpa, among other occupations an old lumberjack, taught we kids how to clean our plates…by licking his own plate clean. My guess is that Grandma Josephine had a bit of advice for him later, but the memory was cemented in our mind. Ah the memories….
Grandpa had an immense amount of pride in his service in the Spanish-American War in the Philippines, 1898-99. Down the block from 738 Cooper was the monument to his unit in that War. Five of his comrades died in a battle at Paete P.I., and apparently two more died shortly after returning home. They are reflected on the monument, which was raised in 1900.
Here is one photo of the monument. A few others are here, on Facebook.

Spanish-American War monument at the Walsh County Court House, June 25, 2012. In front of the monument is a smaller monument to those who served in other wars. Let us work for Peace.


There is a necessary postnote to this post on a family history.

We cannot escape the reality of getting older. The wonderful lady who really helped give me much impetus to begin this family history years ago is very near going into a nursing home at age 92. I visited her on this trip. When I began this journey 32 years ago, she was a huge resource. Now she is completely vulnerable, confused, cannot live alone, and is obviously scared of what is a necessary change for her.
Others who helped with the history have died; still others are very ill.
This trip, and the great meeting with my cousin from California, remind me that if there is work to be done on family matters, now, not tomorrow or next month or next year, is the time to do it. We just don’t know when it will be too late.
Thanks, JoAnn, for the idea of (as my Dad liked to say) “a face-off”!

Winding down after a most enriching day travelling the "roots road": center is JoAnn (Wentz) Beale, at right, Dick Bernard, at left JoAnn's cousin Kasey (Kouba) Ponds. At the Market Place on 8th in Grafton, June 25, 2012

#582 – Dick Bernard: The Street

“Back in the day”, my Grandpa Henry Bernard (born on a farm in Quebec in 1872) spent most of his adult life in Grafton ND.
He came to Grafton area with a first grade education and carpentry as a trade but had a particular gift for figuring out how mechanical things work. For years he was chief engineer of the local flour mill, and long-time volunteer and President of the local fire department and the guy, the Grafton history notes, who drove the first motorized fire truck to Grafton from somewhere.
Both my Grandpa’s had inquiring minds – Grandpa Busch was a farmer with a couple of patents – but he didn’t have easy access to the streets of any big town.
Grandpa Bernard did, and in retirement he loved to “kibitz” or be a “sidewalk superintendent” in his town of several thousand. Most times it was on his bench on the front stoop of their tiny home at 738 Cooper Avenue. Sometimes it was watching the action elsewhere in town.
There exists a wonderful film clip from a day in 1949 which includes him watching a crew lay a concrete section of street in Grafton (here, beginning at about 4:15. He even merits a subtitle!). In the fashion of the day, he was dressed up. He was a common man, but when you went out, you dressed up!
Paving that street in Grafton was the ‘street theater’ of the day!
I think of that vignette because for the last week or so the crews have been in our neighborhood rebuilding our street – the first time in about 20 years.
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Romeo Road, Woodbury, mid-June, 2012


Such projects are essential nuisances to folks on the street, but a change in routine.
Kibitzing a few days ago, a neighbor and I were wondering why they replaced some sections of curb and not others, so we went to look (cracks were the villains, mostly).
Some unlucky folks had the entryway to their driveway blocked for a few days because their section of curb had to be replaced.
As I write, the street is prepared, and repaving is about to be begin, but early Tuesday morning came another inconvenience. The neighbors across the street – the ones who couldn’t get into their driveway for a few days – had another unfortunate happening.
Early on June 19 came those violent winds, and one of their trees blew over, blocking that driveway again….

Early morning June 19, 2012


Its all better now. The tree was rapidly removed, and life goes on.
We have assorted complaints, of course, but work crews are doing their work very efficiently, and somebody somewhere in our communities did the planning, letting of contracts, etc., etc., etc. None of us had to worry about this planning and implementation.
Yes, we’ll have to pay an assessment, but it’s a small price to pay as part of our community.
And a bonus is the chance to re-view Grandpa Bernard in action at 77 years of age, now 63 years ago.
I wonder what he could have been able to do had he been able to pursue an education.
He died in 1957 when I was 17.
I’ll visit his and Grandma’s and others graves in Grafton and Oakwood ND next Monday.
Thanks for the memories.

#581 – Dick Bernard: Father's Day 2012

This is one of those days when nostalgia reigns, and all manner of inspirational stories are related about people who made a difference in one way or another in someone else’s life.
Today, the examples will be Dad’s (of which I am one several times over).
My thoughts today are to three recent and completely unrelated events that involve Dads. For some reason, they all become related, for me.
One is a funeral I attended a little over a week ago for a 77 year old man in rural Wisconsin.
The second is about a not guilty verdict announced just a couple of days ago in the death of a tiny girl in January, 2011.
Both are relatives of mine.
The third is an e-mail from a stranger, received yesterday, with a comment about another Dad, years ago.
Each deserve a few words on this day.
The 77 year old, Dave, was a father, grandfather and great-grandfather who was highly respected in his family and community. His death was expected and, I’d say, “normal” in the day-to-day course of things.
It was said at the funeral, and I’ve known this for years, that Dave’s Dad died before Dave was a year old, as a result of one of those horrible accidents that sometimes interfere with life. His Mom, a wonderful lady who died two years ago at 100, never remarried, and Dave had to live without a Dad of his own. Of course, this isn’t true, because in his constellation there were all sorts of male role-models from which he was able to construct his own model of being a Dad.
Of course, we all do this, male and female alike: our biological parents are our base….
The second is about two men, one a father, the second a grandfather, whose lives were turned upside down by an event in mid-January 2011 which I remember vividly from my wife’s exclamation when she answered the phone that morning: “oh, no!”.
Their child and grandchild, Brooke, not yet one, was completely normal one day, and a few days later was dead. I was at that funeral too – a church full of people; a tiny casket up front.
There was, in this instance, an allegation that Brooke’s babysitter had contributed to the babies death, and as such events happen, an investigation led to a charge of manslaughter, and ultimately to a jury trial which ended last Friday evening with a verdict, “not guilty”. It has been very hard for the family. Grandpa and Grandma had become the babysitter of Brooke’s sister the following year, and were, of course, at the entire trial with all that brings.
The acquittal was a prominent story in yesterday’s Twin Cities newspapers, and was on TV news the previous night. Of course, such accounts include quotes and descriptions which make the case live on….
Prosecutors are very cautious in bringing charges; even so, it is said, they get convictions only 90% of the time. That’s what our legal system is for: to hear and consider evidence.
It can be said that our legal system worked in this case, and it did, but in the rubble of the court trial any idea of closure or reconciliation, of moving on, is at minimum delayed…for everyone, on all sides.
I wonder, is there a better way for our society to deal with such tragedies? I don’t know the answer. Justice was done, case closed, but every person is a victim; everyone lost, including the ‘winner’.
Which leads to the last story, from a woman in Las Vegas who I’ve never met, and probably will never meet, who found me through a random google search about a family history matter.
She’s in a search for family history of her own family, and for reasons irrelevant to this writing, she took the ‘shot in the dark’ and asked me. She’d found this blog post as she searched the internet.
Perhaps the easiest is to just convey her second message from yesterday at 3 p.m. in her own words:
“Dick, I am so glad to hear your response! I am excited—–I am taking a road trip and going to be in the NE area of North Dakota looking for my grandmothers grave as I have never seen it—-nor has my mother———when [my grandmother Beatrice] died at age 39 [in January, 1927] my mother was her youngest of 10 children—my grandfather [Byron] moved to [a town in] Washington state and the ladies of the town told him he had to give the baby to foster care which he did and she stayed with them…till she got married–they had moved to Spokane and that is where she was raised. [My grandfather] had his own woodmill and evidently was quite successful— he died 2 months before I was born. Her biological family stayed in close contact tho and so now we still all know each other well. I will contact the people you gave reference to. […] Thank you, thank you, you have made my day and given me hope.”
Life goes on with its own unknown twists and turns.
Best we can do is to try to do our best.
Something to think about, this Father’s Day.

Daughter Heather and I on the light rail after the Minnesota Twins-Philadelphia Phillies game June 13. Our side lost 9-8, and we were tired, but it was fun, anyway.


DEDICATION: This post is especially dedicated to my friend Richard, also called Lee, who is a very proud father and grandfather, and is nearing the end of his life. Lee is a heroic figure to me.

#575 – Dick Bernard: Election 2012 #20. A History of "Decisive" Battles in Warfare

Today is election day in Wisconsin; five months from today is the United States General Election.
There is a serious question embedded in the following: how do we change American political warfare before we are all – winners and losers and, indeed, country – lying dead in the weeds?
The past couple of generations of Republican politics, more or less 40 years, perfected by people like Lee Atwater and Karl Rove and their many disciples, has been based on principles of Warfare. Negative emotions of people, as fear and loathing, are harnessed and used as the bullets to kill the opposition. Now unlimited and almost totally unregulated money has entered the conversation. Somehow the following commentary seems most appropriate for today, the day Wisconsin decides. I keep thinking of two books….
For some years my bookshelf has held two old books I found some years ago in a box at my Grandparents North Dakota farm.
Both have copyrights of 1898.
One, 592 pages, by U.S. Senator John J. Ingalls (Kansas) is entitled America’s War for Humanity “A Complete History of Cuba’s Struggle for Liberty and the Glorious Heroism of America’s Soldiers and Sailors”.
The second, which is the focus of this post, by Brig. General Charles King, is Decisive Battles of the World, and highlights, in its 956 pages, 52 “Decisive” battles in the history of Humanity. His “Decisive Battles” are listed at the end of this post.
Curious to me is why these books ended up on the farm of my Mom’s parents, which my grandparents established after migrating from southwest Wisconsin in 1905. I don’t know anyone on that ‘side’ of my family who was actually in the Spanish-American War.
More logically, they’d have ended up on the shelf of my other grandfather, Henry Bernard, some hundreds of miles away, who, seven years earlier, was in the Spanish-American War in the Philippines. It appears he was in the same unit commanded by author General King, and at the same places in the Philippines. But King’s book focuses on a battle in Cuba, and not the Philippines.
Ah, the unanswerable questions the very existence of these volumes on a North Dakota farm bring forth!
A more obvious “decisive battle” than the others is the last in King’s book – the 52nd. It is the battle for Santiago Cuba, including the famous story of the Charge up San Juan Hill, with the iconic Colonel Theodore Roosevelt (who in the book is one of four officers pictured, but is the only one in civilian clothes). The others: Major Generals H. W. Lawton and Adna B. Chaffee; and Brig. General Leonard Wood. The Spanish-American War was the war of the authors generation, and of his own participation. This last chapter is written by Henry F. Keenan. Keenan himself is an intriguing character. Why he writes this chapter is unknown. The first few pages are here: Santiago Decisive Battle001
Here’s the Battle for Santiago Map, as published in the book: (click to enlarge it). The invasion began at a place called Baiquiri (yes, the word Daiquiri is also mentioned in the book!)

Page 918 of Decisive Battles of the World by Brig Gen Charles H. King, U.S.A.


The 64 page chapter about Cuba is not quite the standard stuff of war histories written by the victors. The conquest of good (us) over evil (the Spaniards); the heroism and losses of especially the officers (though nothing is said about the schoolboy story I learned of the charge up San Juan Hill led by Teddy Roosevelt.) The natural elements – heat, water, terrain – seem more an “enemy” than the Spaniards, but, whatever….
The Spanish-American War was a triumph of public relations, begun by the mysterious sinking of the battleship Maine in Havana Harbor and nudged along by what came to be called “yellow journalism”. Then came the rush of volunteers to serve, including my grandfather Bernard in the Philippines (“remember the Maine“); and ending, as the author vividly states, “In nearly every one of the thousands of newspapers published throughout the United States, the participants and victims of the Santiago campaign contributed personal observation of the battle; the combined testimonies, if ever collated, would give definite account of every instant of time from the moment the armada left Tampa, until the flag of the republic was flung out over the civic palace of Santiago….”
All that changed over the 2500 years of warfare were the weapons of choice.
Here’s how the weapons of 1898 were described: Sp Am War weapons001
Decisive Battles skips the 20th century because the 20th Century had not yet begun.
War has continued, and the rules of war have only changed, including in Wisconsin, today, where the war is counted in Dollars spent on campaigns and management of misinformation and disinformation. Words have become the weapons. Last I heard, the Democrats are heavily out-gunned in at least the money war: 7 1/2 to one (though those numbers are themselves moving targets.)
Likely no one will physically die, at least directly of the election, but most definitely the intention is to Win, not Lose, a 21st century “Civil War” of a new kind….
But is a “win” in war “decisive”? Maybe, but only for the moment.
As General King had no way of knowing, Santiago turned out to not be “decisive” at all, at least for the peasantry who remained poor. Then someone named Fidel Castro took over Cuba in 1959…and now an American of Spanish Cuban descent, Florida U.S. Senator Marco Rubio, is being prominently mentioned as a possible Republican vice-presidential candidate in the U.S. presidential election…politics does make strange bedfellows.
But even in War, even the victors ultimately lose.

We can make the Rules of War less relevant in the political battles to come.
Brig-Gen. King’s notion of the 52 Decisive Battles of the World:
Marathon 490 BC
Thermopylae 480 BC
Plateau 479 BC
Leuctra 371 BC
Mantinea 362 BC
Arbela 331 BC
Cannae 215 BC
Zama 202 BC
Cynoscephal 197 BC
Manesia 190 BC
Pydna 168 BC
Pharsalia 49 BC
Philippi 42 BC
Chalons 451 AD
Tours 732 AD
Hastings 1066 AD
Jerusalem 1099 AD
Acre 1191 AD
Cressy 1346 AD
Orleans 1429 AD
Constantinople 1453 AD
Leipsic 1631 ad
Lutzen 1632 AD
Vienna 1683 AD
Narva 1700 AD
Pultowa 1709 AD
Blenheim 1794 AD
Ramilies 1706 AD
Gudenarde 1708 AD
Leuthen 1757 AD
Kunersdorf 1759 AD
Torgau 1760 AD
Bunker Hill 1775 AD
Saratoga 1777 AD
Marengo 1800 AD (first of five Napoleonic battles)
Austerlitz 1805 AD ” ”
Jena 1806 AD ” ”
Auerstadt 1806 AD ” ”
Waterloo 1815 AD ” ”
The Alamo 1836 AD (expanding United States)
Chapultepec 1847 AD ” ” ”
Balaclava 1854 AD (Europe)
Malvern Hill 1862 AD (first of five U. S. Civil War)
Manassas 1862 AD ” ”
Chancellorsville 1863 AD ” ”
Gettysburg 1863 AD ” ”
Nashville 1864 AD ” ”
Five Forks and Lee’s Surrender 1865 AD ” ”
Gravelotte 1879 AD
Plevna 1877 AD
Port Arthur 1894 AD
Santiago 1898 AD
By my counting, here are number of his decisive battles by time period:
13 – BC
2 – Pre-1000 AD
6 – 1000-1500 AD
13 – 1600-1800 AD (two American)
18 – 1800-1900 (five Napoleon, six Civil War, two against Mexico)
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#573 – Dick Bernard: Three Memories on Memorial Day 2012. Frank Peter Bernard, Henry Bernard and Patricia Krom

SEVERAL UPDATES, INCLUDING PHOTOS at end of this post.
I’m at the age where death is an increasingly regular visitor to my circles. This Memorial Day three deaths come to mind.
The first came when I was 1 1/2 years old, when my Uncle Frank Peter Bernard went down on the USS Arizona at Pearl Harbor HI. He was 26 years old, and I had “met” him in Long Beach CA five months earlier, at the end of June, 1941.
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Henry Sr, Josephine, Josie, Frank Peter, Richard, Henry and Esther Bernard, Long Beach CA late June, 1941


I’m the family historian, and I recall no talk, ever, about any kind of funeral or memorial service for Frank.
He was from Grafton, ND. On Dec. 7, 1941, his brother, my Dad, was a teacher in the rural ND country school called Rutland Consolidated; his sister lived in Los Angeles; and his parents were wintering in Long Beach CA. Indeed, according to my Dad, they were not sure, for some time, whether or not Frank was dead. His good boyhood and Navy friend, John Grabanske, was reported to have died, though later was found to be very much alive (and lived on, well into his 80s). Here’s my Dad’s recollection, as recounted by myself 50 years after Pearl Harbor: Bernard H Pearl Harbor001
The closest I have to a “memory card” about a formal remembering of Uncle Frank is a long article in the February 17, 1942 Grand Forks (ND) Herald, reporting on a large ND picnic somewhere in the Los Angeles area on about February 12, 1942. Such picnics were common in those days – a gathering of winterers and transplants.
There is a poignant passage which I quote here in part: “A touching incident occurred during the program. [The counsel for the Republic of Poland in Los Angeles] read a press report telling of the death of a young man of Polish descent at Pearl Harbor, the young man being a native of the Grafton area. When he had finished reading a man and his wife arose in the audience, the man asking if he might interrupt for just a moment…the man [my grandfather] said the report of the boy’s death later was found to be in error, but that the man actually killed at Pearl Harbor was the pal of the boy mentioned in the first press report. “The boy killed,” said the man, “was our son!”…The entire audience arose and stood in silence for a moment in honor of the dead hero and the parents who made the sacrifice.”
Uncle Frank’s grave, on the USS Arizona, is probably among the most visited cemeteries in the world. I know his sister, my Aunt Josie, visited there in 1969, but my Dad and his parents never had that opportunity.
The next funeral I remember is for that same Grandfather of mine, who died May 23, 1957 at age 85. I was 17.
His funeral was in Grafton, on May 25, 1957, and many people came to his funeral.
Grandpa was a Spanish-American War Veteran, Philippines, 1898-99. We still have the flag in recognition of his service.
It has 48 stars. Alaska and Hawaii had not yet been admitted as states. It is the flag we raised on a flagpole the family purchased at Our Lady of the Snows, Belleville IL, after Dad died in 1997. We raised the flag on Memorial Day, 1998, dedicating it to Grandpa’s sons, my Dad and Uncle Frank. (Here’s an interesting piece of research about percent of Americans who actually serve in the Military)

Dedication of flagpole with Grandpa Bernards 48 star flag, Memorial Day, 1998, Our Lady of the Snows, Belleville IL


Plaque for the Our Lady of the Snows flagpole, 1998


Time passes on, many more deaths and remembrances of all assorted kinds.
The most recent came on May 19, 2012, in Langdon ND, a memorial service for my cousin Patricia (Brehmer) Krom. Pat actually passed away in Las Vegas on January 25, and there was a memorial service there at that time, but the Langdon area was her home, and my Uncle Vince and I went up for the Memorial Service.
All funerals are alike; all funerals are very different. Pat’s was no exception.
I doubt I will ever forget the eulogy at Pat’s Memorial, given by her husband of 42 years, Kent.
He retraced two lives together in a truly memorable way, one which any one in any relationship for any length of time could immediately relate to; from the first awkward dance at Langdon High School, to her death at only 62 years of age.

Pat Brehmer Krom's life, May 19, 2012


The details are unimportant, except for one which I will always remember. As I recall it, regardless of how their day might have gone, it was a frequent occurrence for exchange of a simple expression of affection: “I love you Kent Krom”; “I love you Pat Brehmer”.
Can’t get better than that.
Arriving back in LaMoure, before I left for home, I picked up a new flag for the flagpole at Vince and Edith’s residence, Rosewood Care Center.
Friday, May 25, at 10:30, they dedicated the new flag to the memory of Patricia Brehmer Krom.
Happy Memorial Day.

Spring at Redeemer Cemetery near Dresden ND May 19, 2012 near the grave of Mary and Allen Brehmer


UPDATES:
Memorial Day, which began as Decoration Day in post-Civil War times, has a long history. Ironically, it was born of what was likely America’s deadliest war ever (in terms of casualties related to the entire population). Americans slaughtered other Americans.
Here are some impressions of today received from individuals. Possibly because the day has an over 140 year history, and because the means of war has changed so much in recent years, making war almost impersonal (see the Pew Research above), there are differing interpretations of what Memorial Day means: is it an event to be solemnly remembered, enjoyed, celebrated, etc.?
How we look differently at the meaning of Memorial Day is good reason for increased conversation among people with differing points of view.
From Susan Lucas: Dick, at the end of your blog you say, “Happy Memorial Day.” I’m afraid I don’t find this day a happy one. The three flags represent our three sons. I’m just so sorry that so many in our society regard Memorial Day as the first day of summer and a three-day weekend to go to the cabin. Anyone who visits Fort Snelling or any other national cemetery can truly appreciate why we have a Memorial Day. While Tom did not die while actually in the service, as the original “Decoration Day” was meant to be, the day should honor all who have been in military service. It’s a day to honor their memory. I question whether it should still be a national holiday when, as Pew Research suggests, so few families are actually impacted by military service anymore.

May 27, 2012, at Ft. Snelling Cemetery from Susan Lucas


From Carol Turnbull: Beautiful!
Scouts observing Memorial Day at a Cemetery in South St. Paul MN, doing upkeep of graves, and placing flags at the stones of veterans.

Scouts at So St Paul cemetery May 28, 2012


Daughter Heather and granddaughter Kelly at grave of Mom and Grandma Diane in So. St. Paul May 28, 2012


The annual commemoration by the MN Veterans for Peace at the State Capitol Grounds, St. Paul MN. Many Vets for Peace, but no means all, are Vietnam Veterans. I have been part of Veterans for Peace for over 10 years.

Veterans for Peace near MN Vietnam Vets Memorial on the MN Capitol Grounds May 28, 2012


Local VFP President Larry Johnson at the MN Capitol area observance May 28


Gita Ghei, whose father was caught in the conflict in western India (a civil war of sorts) at the time the British transferred authority to Indians.


Vet Jerry Rau performs a composition on May 28


Commentary here from Digby related to a Veterans for Peace event in southern California.
Other commentaries on the label “hero” as a topic of contemporary political warfare are here and here.
Of course, such a term is a moving target. In the 2004 Presidential Election, candidate John Kerry, whose military service and heroism in Vietnam was ridiculed by “Swift Boating” negative ads, was made to seem the opposite of what he was: a serviceman who had done his job above and beyond the call of duty. I agree with the assessment that the word “hero” is often misapplied in todays political conversation. Personally, I’m a lucky Vietnam era veteran. I served during the first Vietnam War years 50 years ago, and can prove it. I did everything I was asked to do, and I never left the United States. Indeed, we were preparing a reactivated infantry division for later combat in Vietnam, but in our frame of the time, we had no idea that such a war was developing. We simply did our jobs. If that is heroism, so be it.
But, then, John Kerry was far more a hero than I every thought of being, and he was viciously ridiculed for his service….
President Obama spoke at the Vietnam Memorial on Monday. I had the lucky privilege of having been at that Memorial the very weekend it was dedicated in the Fall of 1982. Vietnam Mem DC 1982001
A little photo album of my service time as a “hero” at Ft. Carson CO can be found on the internet, here. Note my name in the first paragraph, click on the link to the album, and open the link to a few of my “Photographs of 1/61….” in 1962-63.